marriage lic. info.

Posted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 4:28 pm

Shouldn't a marriage lic. issued in 1980 in franklin county mass. have birthdate info. of groom & bride on it? I paid to have a copy of mine sent to me in the mail & it was useless to me! Cause what yhey mailed to me where the birth dates I thought would be there was nothing but alot of X's!! So I called there & they told me that there are no birthdates on it!!! Mad

Is this true?! I think they are lying to me my problem is I live in Fla. so I can't go there and demand to see origanal. Please help!!

Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 1:29 am

Hey Terrym,

You might be able to cross reference the name and come up with the date of birth.

A lot of public databases have the DOB of the individuals you are searching for.

I suggest you got to Public Info

Click on the "Find People" tab.. search the names, you may come up with the birth dates,
then click the "Birthdates" tab, enter the names and see if the dates match.

I hope that helps you.

Keep us posted on your findings.

Good Luck!
Blong

Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 5:01 pm

Thanks for the info. it helped a little bit atleast I mean it gave me a few leads. Very Happy

My problem is he has a fairley common name & I can't remember his exact b-date Imean I know what month & what yr but that's it. That is if what he told me was true!? He lied to me so much while we were together I can't be 100% sure!

Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:34 pm

WOW MAN I THOUGHT I WAS A PROCASTINATOR!!!!
I REMEMBER YOUR POST FROM A FEW weeks AGO..."you got married to a guy in 1980 but you don't CAN'T FIND HIM...I TRIED TO KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT...AND I TRY NOT TO BE A SMART***!..BUT "IT'S HARD..RINGO..BUT I'M TRY'N"!..That's a line from one of my favorite movies! "PULP FICTION" BUT THAT WAS IN 1995...LET'S NOT GET TO THAT DECADE YET!!
A LOOK I USED TO DRINK, I GOT INTO A LITTLE "TROUBLE" I WAS OFF DUTY BUT I HAD TO GO DOWNTOWN TO A COURTHOUSE..IT'S A LONG STORY BUT BEFORE I WENT I FIGURED A FEW SHOTS OF 100 PROOF SCHNAPS WOULD LOOS'N ME-UP! A LITTLE CUZ I DON'T LIKE HANG'N AROUND A COURTHOUSE EVEN WHEN I AM GETTING PAID!! WE'LL YOU THINK I'M A (CENSORED **LE! NOW) BUT A LITTLE OVER A QUART LATER! I GUESS I PASSED OUT IN THE COURT ROOM..ON THE BENCH... AFTER I THREW-UP! I GUESS THE JUDGE WAS PRETTY PISSED! HE HAD THE JUDICIAL COPS REMOVE ME!! MOST OF THE COPS,BONDSMEN,STATES ATTNYS AND A LOT OF CRIMINAL DEFENDANTS KNEW ME...AND TOLD THE JUDGE (I DON'T KNOW WHO) BUT I KNOW HE GOT A HELL OF A LOT MADDER!! AND TOLD 'EM TO LOCK ME UP!!..WELL TO THIS DAY I DON'T REMEMBER ANY OF IT EXCEPT WAKING -UP! HAND CUFFED! IN A COLD DARK ROOM ...I THOUGHT (WE HAVE A LG ALBANIAN COMMUNITY!) AND THEY HAVE BACK ROOM AFTER HOUR GAMBELING JOINTS!!) I THOUGHT I WAS BEING HELD IN ONE! THAT I MUST HAVE GOT IN A FIGHT OR THEY THOUGHT I WAS GONNA TURN'EM IN OR SOMETHING I SURE AS HELL DIDNT KNOW!! AND TO THIS DAY I DON'T REMEMBER...ANY THING EXCEPT WAKING-UP AGAIN! AND BEING UN CUFFED BY SOME STATE TROOPERS THAT WERE LAUGHING AND HANDED ME SOME COFFEE..I GUESS THEY LOCKED ME UP IN A PADDY WAGON TILL I SLEPT IT OFF!!!
CUZ THEY COULD,NT PUT ME IN A CELL!...WHEN I WENT BEFORE INTERNAL AFFAIRS..WITH MY UNION REP.THEY HAD TO STOP THE TAPE SEVERAL TIMES CUZ THE CAPT. KEPT ON MIS READING MY INCIDENT REPORT ..THEY THOUGHT I SAID I GOT KIDNAPPED BY "ALIENS" NO "ALBAINIANS" I CORRECTED THEM!! THAT WAS 3 YEARS AGO LAST MONTH!! THE CHARGES WERE DROPPED & IT NEVER GOT IN THE PAPERS!!
SOME TIMES YOU GOTTA KNOW WHEN TO QUIT! I DID & AS MANY OF YOU MAY HAVE READ..I JUST GOT MY RETIREMENTPAPERS!!
I'LL NEVER DRINK AGAIN!! Very Happy

I'LL GET BACK TO YOU LATER!!

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 4:00 am

Quote:

Shouldn't a marriage lic. issued in 1980 in franklin county mass. have birthdate info. of groom & bride on it?

Is there a forum member familiar with Massachusetts marriage licenses who can answer terrm’s question?

Also terrym this is a long shot, do you have his social security number?

watchman

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 5:58 am

I KNOW I'M A BUTT HEAD BUT I'M A SENSITIVE BUTTHEAD I AM!
THE MODERATOR COULD VOUCH FOR THE FACT THAT I MENTIONED TO HIM, THAT I ASKED ONE OF MY ATTNYS, ABOUT "COMMON LAW" PERHAPS TAKING A PRESIDENCE IN GRANTING A DIVORCE/DISSALUTION OF MARRAGE DECREE 1. IF HE ABANDONED YOU & OR ANY OFF SPRING & YOUR COMMON DOMICILE FOR A PERIOD OF AT LEAST 7 YEARS W/O ANY COMMUNICATION,NOTICE, ETC. CASE HX. COURT &/OR ASSUMPTION OF DEATH ETC. SCINCE THIS NO LONGER APPLIES IN MY STATE ..YOU CAN LOOK INTO IT...
NOW FROM YOUR INITIAL INQUARY YOU STATED:I'am trying everyway i can think of to laocate my husband with no luck. We were married in jan 1980 & I havent' seen him since late 1981. He was very abusive I was finally able to get rid of him. Now I just want to get my divorce from him. Have been trying on & off to find him for years with no luck. I dont want to spend a fortune for a divorce as I don't know if he is even alive or not. I contacted the town hall where we were married & i have a copy of my marriage lic. But it is totaly useless to me as i can't remember his b-date os soc. sec. # & there is nothing on marriage lic. So i'm at the end of my rope. Please help! Confused [/b]
WHERE DID YOU MEET?
WHERE DID HE SAY HE WAS FROM?
DID YOU EVER FILE A JOINT INCOME TAX?
WHERE DID YOU LIVE??LEASE?
ANY JOINT ACCTS?
CAR?
WHAT DID HE DO FOR WORK? WAS HE IN THE MILITARY?
WHAT DID HE SAY,OR YOU KNOW ABOUT HIS FAMILY?
YOU SAID HE WAS ABUSIVE..DID YOU FILE A POLICE REPORT?
WAS HE ARRESTED OR HAVE A RECORD (AS IN CRIMINAL! OPPOSED TO "PINK FLOYDS DARKSIDE OF THE MOON"..HEH..SORRY)
YOU SAID YOU FINALLY GOT RID OF HIM..IS THAT TO SAY YOU MIGHT OF HAD HIM WHACKED & DON'T REMEMBER OR WAS HE STALKING /HARRASSING YOU,AND IF HE WAS, DO YOU KNOW FROM WHERE?
DID HE YOU EVER GET A COURT OR PROTECT5IVE ORDER?
DID YOU EVER APPLY FOR PUBLIC ASSISTANCE?
DID HE HAVE ANY PERTINANT MEDICAL HX,HAVE A SERIOUS/CHRONIC ILLNESS,ON DAILY MEDS, HAVE ANY OTHER HANDICAP,DISABILLITY??
WAS HE EVER HOSPITALIZED/&OR/INSTITUTIONALIZED??
DID HE BELONG TO ANY CLUBS,UNIONS ORGANIZATIONS??
ANY HOBBIES,TWISTED FETTISHES, WAS HE A SPORTS FAN?? WHAT TEAM??...WELL IF YOU CAN ANS. ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS OR THINK OF ANYTHING ELSE?? YOU CAN SEND ME THE INFO FOR FREE IF YOU'D LIKE..CAN'T PROMISE ...BUTT I'LL SEE WHAT I CAN DO!!
[url]delawman@gmail.com[/url]

in any event keep us posted..GOOD LUCK!!
Wink

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 5:29 pm

watchman wrote:

Quote:

Shouldn't a marriage lic. issued in 1980 in franklin county mass. have birthdate info. of groom & bride on it?

Is there a forum member familiar with Massachusetts marriage licenses who can answer terrm’s question?

Also terrym this is a long shot, do you have his social security number?

watchman

No such luck I have no idea what his social security is if I did it it would make my life alot easier!!

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 6:10 pm

I'am trying everyway i can think of to laocate my husband with no luck. We were married in jan 1980 & I havent' seen him since late 1981. He was very abusive I was finally able to get rid of him. Now I just want to get my divorce from him. Have been trying on & off to find him for years with no luck. I dont want to spend a fortune for a divorce as I don't know if he is even alive or not. I contacted the town hall where we were married & i have a copy of my marriage lic. But it is totaly useless to me as i can't remember his b-date os soc. sec. # & there is nothing on marriage lic. So i'm at the end of my rope. Please help! Confused [/b]

IS'NT THE WORD!...we'll on 2nd thought it is!

Cool

NOTE: WATCHMAN YOU PROB. REMEMBER:Back in the day, when Soft Rubber Soled shoes Ie:"GUM(SOLED)SHOES" came out...and all the detectives said ,Oh boy, my feet will feel much better when I do all that leg work!!.....Oh that's right , Wink

Heels! Gotcha...My bad!
WELL ANYWAY I REMEMBER WHY BACK IN THE DAY..WHEN ONLY DONALD TRUMP HAD A CELL PHONE!!(WHY DO YOU THINK RE DOES THAT HAIR THING "Radiation!"....ANY WAY JUST ABOUT EVERY...CORNER HAD A "THING CALLED A PHONE BOOTH" PEOPLE USED TO PEE IN 'EM,A BUM WOULD BE SLEEP'N IN THE THING!! AND YOU WOULD HAVE TO STRADLE'EM TO MAKE A CALL!!...ANY WAY I'M GOING OLD SCHOOL..I'LL GET The #..from my record section post ..and let you know!!!!

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lawmanconfidential
Wink

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 6:24 pm

they said to go to the city you were married in ,bbbbbbbbbbbbut info on CERT.is contingent on answersyou submitted !!!!
best bet chech w/the city you were married in Rolling Eyes

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 6:42 pm

They are the idiots that sent me a copy of my marriage cert. in it with no info on it!!! And when I called back up there[as I'm in Fla] they told me that on the cert. was were no birthdates on it!!

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 7:31 pm

TERRY SORRY FOR B'N SUCH A WISE GUY ...NO OFFENSE ...LIKE I SAID...NO ONES PERFECT!!!
BUT IF YOU WANT YOU CAN SEND ME THE INFO ON THE GUY
HIS NAME & WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT HIM
I,LL TRY TO HAVE THE INFO 4 YOU W/ IN A WEEK IF I GET ANY THING AND IT'S FREE...JUST TELL PEOPOLE ABOUT THIS WEB SITE AND WHAT A NICE BUTT HEAD "I AM"

[url]delawman@gmail.com[/url]

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 7:53 pm

Ok I have the copy of my marriage cert. @ home. It has some info. on it that i can't remember off the top of my head. I'll get back up with you before the weekend is over. And thanks again for trying to help me!

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 8:29 pm

Lawman

I have no idea what you’re talking about……

Had a situation where a husband deserted his bride. To make a long story short, a check of the death index and a small investment in SS-5’s gave us the needed info.

Used your license plate resource this morning and found it helpful. CLICK HERE

wm

Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 4:23 pm

ok so no one has any idea if a marriage lic issued in 1980 in mass. should have at atleast a birthdate on it or not?

Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 6:16 pm

Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 8:00 pm by watchman

Quote:

Is there a forum member familiar with Massachusetts marriage licenses who can answer terrym's question?

Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 8:23 am by terrym

Quote:

ok so no one has any idea if a marriage lic issued in 1980 in mass. should have at atleast a birthdate on it or not?

Sorry I guess not.

FYI I did check a few certified copies of marriage licenses from another state and no DOB listed.
wm-